FAQ
Common questions
How long should I meditate as a beginner?
Ten minutes a day is the right starting point. Long enough to settle in, short enough that you'll actually do it. The habit matters far more than the duration. Add five minutes per week once it sticks and you're sitting regularly.
Do I need to sit in a specific position?
No. Cross-legged on a cushion is traditional because it's stable and keeps your back straight without effort, but a chair works fine. The actual rule: spine reasonably upright, body comfortable enough that physical discomfort isn't the main distraction. Lying down tends to lead to sleep.
My mind won't stop — am I doing it wrong?
No. A busy mind is the universal beginner experience. The practice isn't about stopping thoughts; it's about noticing that your mind wandered and returning attention to your anchor (usually the breath). Every return is a rep. Beginners do hundreds of reps in a single ten-minute sit.
Which app should I use?
Insight Timer for a free option with a good interval timer and thousands of guided sessions. Headspace for a structured beginner course with clear animated guidance. Waking Up (Sam Harris's app) for a more rigorous secular approach. All three are solid — pick one and use it for 30 days before switching.
Do I need a teacher?
Not at the start. A good book and a consistent daily practice will take you further than most people ever go on their own. After 3–6 months of daily sitting, a weekend retreat or online teacher can sharpen your technique — but only after the habit exists.
Is there a 'right' type of meditation?
The core mechanics — focusing attention, noticing when the mind wanders, returning — are present in almost every tradition. Mindfulness, vipassana, loving-kindness, transcendental, Zen: the differences matter more at intermediate and advanced levels. Start with basic breath awareness and figure out the rest at month three.