Before you buy anything
A few things worth knowing first
Rent your skis, bindings, and poles for at least your first full season. This is not beginner-hedging advice — it's the correct financial and practical choice. Resort rentals run $50–80/day for a full setup. Many ski shops offer demo programs where daily rental fees apply toward a purchase, so you're not throwing money away. After 5–7 days of skiing, you'll have a clear sense of what length, width, and style of ski suits you, and that information is worth more than any review you'll read.
Do not rent your boots. I'll say it again: do not rent your boots. Rental boots are shared, they've been compressed by hundreds of feet before yours, and they will fit you like a wet cardboard box. The single biggest day-one comfort upgrade you can make is owning a properly fitted pair of ski boots. Get fitted at a real ski shop — not a sporting goods chain — by someone who watches you walk, measures your foot, and flexes the boot before putting it on you. This takes 30–60 minutes and is completely worth it.
Book a lesson for your first day. Not a half-day — a full-day group lesson with a certified instructor (PSIA-certified). You will learn in four hours what would take a week of trial-and-error on your own. If you already ski a little and just want to get better, a single private lesson targeting your specific issues does more than ten hours of solo practice.